She stopped calling you ages ago. You are the one who takes the initiative to call otherwise you would not be communicating at all. Sometimes she even fails to pick your calls or worse still she tells someone else to pick the phone and tell whoever is calling she out on an errand. Your voice is the last thing she would like to hear. She will go an extra mile of either switching off her phone or changing her phone number. You nag and you are no longer her darling. You are that man, nameless and faceless. She would not want to be associated with you. She is fast losing interest in you. She would rather do better things than waste her time on phone talking with you.

It is not amazing but she goes out without you. She hangs out more frequently and she puts a bold statement that your company is no longer important. It means that she can do without you . You do not add value to her life. She is perfectly okay and more comfortable in your absence. She would prefer to go out alone than you being by her side or hang out with her girl friends. She is losing interest in you when she pretends to retire to bed early after you probably propose for a night out with her. If these are the signs then it won’t be a surprise if she is seeing another person. It would only serve to show how much she has lost interest in you to the extent of replacing you

She is so reserved and damn aloof when you are with her. She speaks in monosyllables when you try to carry on a conversation. The many silent interludes, some which are unbearably long, continue to build tension. You all over sudden become self conscious. It is like you are sitting around a stranger. She is no longer the person you once knew. The girl who was bubbly, jovial, outgoing and fun to be with. She is losing interest in you and continues to grow colder and colder as the days go by. Read the signs and move on before you are hurt further.

Author: Francis K. Githinji

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So…why don’t you walk with me through the misted forest. There’s so much to see…so much to get to know about each other. Feel the heart of Mother Earth as we walk through her world; feel her guiding us upon the path we have chosen.

Friendships are beautiful things and occasionally can lead to something more special. Won’t you be my friend? Teach me from your experiences and viewpoints…and learn what you will from mine.

I promise…it will be an adventure.

My Ideal Person:
Integrity, honesty, personal strength. The kind of person who can relax and play with me; who can help pick me up ; who can share the load of responsibility with me….and who is comfortable letting me do the same for them. Someone who can see possibilities in the colors of the wind…and hear the whispers of the Universe in the music of a river. People who are willing to reach for the stars…and believe they can reach them.

And you know what….I’ve met someone who does just that….so…I’m looking for friendships only at this point in time. Please respect that.

Favorite television shows:
Law and Order, Dead Zone, Stargate
Favorite films:
Lord of the Rings, The Notebook, First Wives Club

Favorite musicians or bands:
Enya

What would be your most ideal date?:
All of the above would be great!

What qualities do you look for in the people you date?:
Intelligent, Glass half full, Daring, Moody, Funny and silly, Integrity, Honesty, Naughty

Not the first time I’ve run this song,
And may not still be all the words,
Gosh I’m deep and meaningful tonight

Imagine there’s no heaven
It’s easy if you try
No hell below us
Above us only sky
Imagine all the people
Living for today…

Imagine there’s no countries
It isn’t hard to do
Nothing to kill or die for
And no religon too
Imagine all the people
Living life in peace…

Imagine no possesions
I wonder if you can
No need for greed or hunger
In a brotherhood of man
Imagine all the people
Sharing all the world…

You may say i’m a dreamer
But i’m not the only one
I hope some day you’ll join us
And the world will be as one